This came my way via facebook this week and while it was posted as a lesson for students I think it applies equally well to blog commenters.
And, as many pointed out on my facebook page, it could also easily to bloggers too. The new Golden Rule.
Posted in blogging, writing, tagged blogging, quotes, writing on March 22, 2012 | 3 Comments »
This came my way via facebook this week and while it was posted as a lesson for students I think it applies equally well to blog commenters.
And, as many pointed out on my facebook page, it could also easily to bloggers too. The new Golden Rule.
Posted in blogging, writing, tagged Mike Daisey, mom blogs, plagiarism, Saturday Night Fever, This American Life, writing on March 19, 2012 | 1 Comment »
This week on the Blogging Angels podcast we tackled plagiarism – again. Why? Because last week a twitstorm of epic proportions hit the mom blogging world when a mom blogger and Babble writer, Kristin Ruiz, was exposed as a plagiarist. She had lifted entire posts from another mom blogger, Amy Storch who writes at Amalah, and passed them off as her own. She was promptly fired from Babble, but the fury this unleashed on all sides was intense and got quite personal. And her defense was that she was only 27 years-old.
Plagiarism isn’t murky. It’s stealing. I spent a great deal of time this year when my daughters entered 4th Grade and began their first research projects teaching them the difference between copying text word for work and taking notes for research that will then become your own thoughts and support your original thesis. When so many images and texts pop up with just a Google search and “copy and paste” is as simple as 2 clicks on the keyboard it can be easy to remember that this is stealing. You may get all the content you want for “free” but ownership does not transfer to you the reader. If 9 nine year-olds can understand that concept then grown women, and men, should have no problem either.
But mom bloggers aren’t the only ones suffering from lying. The uncovering of Mike Daisey‘s Apple story, which aired on This American Life, as an exaggerated tale led to a retraction and endless media coverage. Ironically though, that story resulted in many real investigations of conditions at the plants where Apple and many other electronic companies manufacture their products. It’s all pretty complicated. This idea of “creative” non-fiction writers is nothing new. And Mike Daisey is defending himself as a “performer” not a journalist. In other words, it was a piece of theater, not the New York Times (hello, Jayson Blair.)
Where does artistic license end and lying begin? For some that line is clear – juicing up a bit of a story to make it more interesting and engaging, versus making up facts that corrupt the entire validity of a story. For others, obviously, there is no difference – it’s all one big story and the embellished means are justified by the powerful end. From Stephen Fry to John D’Agata this non-fiction fiction has been discussed. Even the famous New York Magazine article, Tribal Rights of Saturday Night, that spawned the movie Saturday Night Fever, was exposed as being almost entirely made up. Tony Manero, main character played by John Travolta in the film, never really existed. It gives me pause every time I read a great long form piece of non-fiction journalism.
I wonder if there should be a new category – the non-fictionish essay. It’s the story the way we wished it had happened, just don’t use it in a court of law or call yourself a journalist. Or a blogger either for that matter.
Posted in blogging, blogging angels, education, podcasts, technology, tagged blogging, blogging angels, Education, high school, plagiarism, writing on September 30, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
Yes, in this week’s Blogging Angels podcast I actually admit to cheating in High School by handing in my boyfriend’s report on Crime and Punishment the year after he had handed in the very same paper. In my defense I had read the book in 9th grade and so in a little sociology experiment decided to see if my teacher truly did favor the boys over the girls by handing in the paper that had earned my boyfriend a 100%. I got a 94%. I proved my hypothesis! And felt justified as only a jaded teenager can. (but I’ll be writing more about my lame high school later this week …) Why did this come up in this week’s podcast? Because we are dishing the dirt on plagiarism on the web, blog stealing and other forms of copying that plague bloggers in this vast virtual world. How can you protect yourself? What is the value of online writing? And is Dr. Roehmer still allowed to teach AP English? OK, that last one is really just my mind bending question.
Tune in to get the answers on the Blogging Angels or listen up on itunes. Plus check out who got golden halos this week and the other links that can help keep your work safe.
Posted in blogging, blogging angels, humor, podcasts, rant, society, tagged Blog, blogging, brand marketing, brands, Charo, podcast, reviews, swag, Walter Cronkite, Women, writing on August 23, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
It’s the Blogging Angels second podcast and we’re talking about the one thing that gets bloggers all worked up – what qualifies as getting paid? Do you work for stuff? What do you owe a company that gives you product unsolicited? Can you write an unbiased review when the product was given to you for free and is yours to keep? If you’re “guest posting” for free on someone else’s site are you a sucker or are you building your brand?
Listen in to where the four of us fall in this debate and join in the conversation on our blog. We’re also asking listeners for their sign off suggestions! We need a way to sign off that will be as memorable as Walter Cronkite’s “And that’s the way it is” but with a dash of Charo’s “cuchi, cuchi.” (seriously, watch that Charo clip!) Shouldn’t be too hard for all of you witty and funny readers and listeners out there!
Posted in kids, life in nyc, parenting, tagged camp, camp pictures, homesickness, letters home, parenting, raising kids, sleep-away camp, summer 2010, writing on July 23, 2010 | 7 Comments »
My daughters left for sleep-away camp on Monday. They come home on Sunday. A short one week trial of sleep-away camp to see if they’d like it, to give them a gentle nudge towards independence. (At least that’s the way my hard core camp husband sold it to me.) Here’s the thing about sleep-away camp that I wasn’t prepared for – I wouldn’t speak to my kids for 6 days. In my mind somehow I forgot this. I’ve been away from them before but I’ve always called home to talk to them and hear a recap of their day. Nope, that’s just not how things work at camp. So every night my husband and I have pathetically waited for the pictures of camp to be posted on the photo site and then go through them with a fine tooth comb looking for a sign of our girls and more importantly to find some proof that they’re having fun. A smile! Arms around a group of girls! Eating marshmallows! All good signs.
Then today we came home to find two letters, one from each of them which must have been written on their first day of camp. We read the first one:
All good right?
Then we opened the second one:
And our hearts fell to the ground. And we laughed. Thank goodness we have the pics of her smiling like crazy at camp or I’d really be worried. Instead I think I’ll be proud of the fact that she has obviously mastered the art of Jewish Guilt. And my husband? The one who went to summer camp for 7 weeks at the age of 7? He is 100 times worse than I am and I think will be touring the Columbia University campus this fall to see how they can commute to college in 10 years without ever leaving home!
Posted in blogging, life in nyc, politics, rant, technology, toys, tagged advertising, blogging, CEA, CES, marketing, momblogger, nyc, PR, reviews, sue lowdon, technology, women in media, women power, writing on June 29, 2010 | 7 Comments »
As if I didn’t have enough to do last week with it being the last week of school here in steamy NYC, I spent most of Tuesday and Wednesday at the Consumer Electronics Association’s (CEA) Lineshows in midtown. This show is a mini, micromini really, version of CES to keep everyone’s interest up and show off some new things. And while I saw some very intriguing new tech, the best part was seeing fellow tech mombloggers like Heidi, Christy, Amy and Beth (the original techmama!) And when I get together with a group of smart, tech savvy and product savvy mombloggers the conversation always turns to money, respect and the lack of both in the momblogging world.
It may come as a surprise to the non-blogging world out there that mombloggers are some of the biggest reviewers, writers and users of new technology. PR reps are all over this of course, but the marketing people still don’t seem to get it. Over and over again marketing and advertising analysts will cite the huge purchasing power and decision making ability of women, and in particular moms. Moms not only do the vast majority of clothes and food shopping but they also hold the purse strings when it comes to new technology purchases for the home and their kids. Who do you think realized that having the right iphone apps could keep your kids busy while waiting in line at the grocery store? Or that the ipod touch and now the ipad could be a traveling moms best friend? A mom that’s who! And who is getting together with their friends and comparing smart phones, giving each other app recommendations, looking over cases and skins? Women.
So here’s my problem.
Posted in books, nyc moms post, technology, tagged anger, blogging, eugene o'neill, facebook, friends, nycmoms, privacy, revenge, truman capote, writing on May 31, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
Over on NYCmoms today I’m talking about whether or not a blog is the place to get even or at least get angry at people in my life. Personally I think I’m too afraid of offending people I know than actually being honest when it comes to issues with family and friends, and it turns out even casual friends. I don’t review products that I don’t like either rather than write something mean about them. Politicians and the like are fair game but the people in my circle, however distant they may be from its center, are basically off my slambook radar.
I remember a writing teacher in college who told me that Eugene O’Neill sealed his autobiographical play Long Day’s Journey Into Night in an envelope for his publisher and that it wasn’t to be produced until 25 years after his death because he couldn’t bear to have anyone related or close to him see it. While it didn’t quite work out that way, I understand that push-pull between wanting to write your story and yet respect the characters involved in the truth. Then there’s Truman Capote who went the other way and betrayed all of his friends when he wrote a sordid short story revealing and trashing his best friends’ marriage. He would have loved blogging no doubt.
So, there it is – the eternal personal blogger’s or “generalist’s” conundrum: What is personal and what is private and where do the two meet? Read the original nycmoms post that started the debate